Remember in grade school the teacher would ask who do you want to be? Police officer, astronaut and teacher were popular answers. Did anyone ever say I want to be present, bold and engaged? No?
Ask yourself that question again – who you want to be? Brendan Burchard has a technique called a door frame trigger. Everytime you walk through a particular door you say 3 words to yourself that define who you want to be and how you want to interact with people. .